STOP.

Stop over thinking, stop worrying, stop complaining. Life is too short for all of that.
One muscle that we have to learn how to develop to achieve success is the muscle in our psyche that we use to make decisions. Just as we workout to develop the muscles we want and the body shape we desire, exercising the muscles of our brain will give our personal lives the look that we want if we learn how to develop them correctly. 

Stop over thinking life, and start making decisions in a more abrupt manner. Consistently do this, and use your intelligence to do so. 

Doing so will allow for you not only to lead a more active life full of action, and growth, but it will also help for you to develop the skill of being able to choose the best choices for your life in a moment's notice, rather than distorting situations by over thinking them. Try making clear decisions with conviction on a daily basis, and remember to follow your gut, it is usually never wrong.

Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.
So many of us run into great adversity in our lives, and refuse to look past the fact that we are only failures if we commit to being one. There is a decision to make in life in almost every moment except when we die. 

Aren't you aware that even after failure, there is still so much possibility in life that you are still able to go after. Just as the caterpillar once thought its life was over, so do we as humans often think our lives are over, when we are in actuality only facing temporary circumstances, and adversity that will probably only last for a limited amount of time. 

Even when misfortunes happen in your life, and even when you don't get to where you want to be by the time that you want to get there, you are blessed because you still have the opportunity to make your life as good as it should be.