STOP.

Stop over thinking, stop worrying, stop complaining. Life is too short for all of that.
One muscle that we have to learn how to develop to achieve success is the muscle in our psyche that we use to make decisions. Just as we workout to develop the muscles we want and the body shape we desire, exercising the muscles of our brain will give our personal lives the look that we want if we learn how to develop them correctly. 

Stop over thinking life, and start making decisions in a more abrupt manner. Consistently do this, and use your intelligence to do so. 

Doing so will allow for you not only to lead a more active life full of action, and growth, but it will also help for you to develop the skill of being able to choose the best choices for your life in a moment's notice, rather than distorting situations by over thinking them. Try making clear decisions with conviction on a daily basis, and remember to follow your gut, it is usually never wrong.

Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.
So many of us run into great adversity in our lives, and refuse to look past the fact that we are only failures if we commit to being one. There is a decision to make in life in almost every moment except when we die. 

Aren't you aware that even after failure, there is still so much possibility in life that you are still able to go after. Just as the caterpillar once thought its life was over, so do we as humans often think our lives are over, when we are in actuality only facing temporary circumstances, and adversity that will probably only last for a limited amount of time. 

Even when misfortunes happen in your life, and even when you don't get to where you want to be by the time that you want to get there, you are blessed because you still have the opportunity to make your life as good as it should be.

Don't mislead.

Love knows no reasons, love knows no lies, love defies all reasons. Love has no eyes but love is not blind. Love sees but doesn't mind. Love is such a powerful force that if it isn't suspended or stopped early in a relationship, its subsequent effects will be inevitable. We aren't always able to choose when we love, and who we love, a lot of times, life, and love, happen. Love is a binding agent between two souls and two hearts, connecting them in at least some ways, forever. Be careful who you love, because when you truly accept to love someone, you love them for everything that they are. There are good and bad qualities that we all have. No one is perfect, which means no relationship will ever be completely perfect. Just be you, take chances, and when you feel as if it is right, go with what your heart says to do. Love may or may not be blind, just be sure to stay dedicated once you commit and accept who you have fallen in love with.

Maybe one day, I'll be what you need. But don't wait too long.. Because the day you want me, may be the day I've finally given up.

Waiting too long to love somebody the way in which they deserved to be loved can sometimes cause dire consequences in the long run. Different people in life want different things, and some desire a loving relationship when they feel as though they have potentially met the right partner to engage in a loving relationship with. 

As a human being with a heart it is important to make the best decision for you, but it is equally important to treat others with dignity and care in every situation. If you feel as though someone is ready to take a relationship a lot more seriously then you are, before things go too far make it a point to let your feelings and intentions known. 

Being honest is always the best policy, and knowing this when dealing with love, we have to be honest with our words, and our actions. Don't send mixed signals, just be open, and honest, even if it causes a bit of pain in someone's life today, this pain will be nowhere close to the level of pain they may feel if you choose to lead them on!

Take chances.

Take a chance. Because you never know how absolutely perfect something could turn out to be. Many of us have dreams, and promises that we have pushed down in our lives. Sometimes we subject ourselves to remaining stagnant in life, because we are so unsure of ourselves that we choose to not even try in certain instances. We have to go through life with the attitude that if we try we might fail, but if we never try we will most certainly fail. Every day we are faced with new decisions, and these are the small battles that we have to win so that we may win the bigger battles. If you aren't willing to not even try to overcome the smaller battles each day, chances are you will have no chance when going up against the much larger aspects of life. Instead of not trying and never knowing what you are truly capable of, just do what your heart tells you to do, try new things, take risks, and only then will you truly go the places that you are capable of going.

Enjoy the little things in life, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. Doing the little things in life will take you across the biggest mountains, as long as you are consistent in doing them throughout your lifetime. A little can become a lot, but one must take his or her life into their own hands. Nobody can make your life better than you can make it if you are willing to give it a solid try. Every little step that you take forward in your life means something. Every small piece of homework you do in grade school, every paper you type up in college, every relationship you experience (even those that only lasted for a couple of weeks), every cookout, every dinner, every get together, every single part of your past, is part of the reason why you are where you are at this moment. Remember that every single moment you can you must be willing to make your life your own. Live your life the way you want to live life, and remember every little step you take in life will eventually mean something.

Why enthuasism is important.

If you are going to live your best life, you must take life a day at a time, and really be about getting to the points in life that you desire to be. If you don't go about life with enthusiasm and aggressiveness, you may still achieve some simple tasks, but you will never reach the mountains of greatness that you are destined to conquer. To be enthusiastic about life we have to be willing to live our lives as ourselves, and forego the opinions, and statements from others about how exactly we should live our lives. There will always be people who tell you one thing and who may actually have the best of intentions, but no one truly knows what you are capable of more than you do! Only you can decide how far that you go in life, or how far that you don't go in life. Stay aggressive, and stay focused!

Always concentrate on how far you've come. Rather than how far you have left to go.
Your end is nowhere in sight, even when you think that your world is coming crashing down. Each day that you are given new breaths to breathe, and new steps to walk is a new day to transform in the most beautiful form of yourself. Coming into your own isn't always something that comes easy to most people but it is something that you have to do so that you may best affect the world in your own way. 

Don't ponder so much on how much time you have left in this world. Focus on the time you do have presently. Each minute you have in life is a minute that you have to affect change, and to show the world how beautiful that your unique soul really is. Never forget this, be yourself, show the world the true beauty of a person willing to be them selves, without a care for anyone elses opinion.

The right way .

Keep your eyes on the stars and your feet on the ground. Though there are times in our lives where it does seem that many things are going our way, and that the principles of hard work, perseverance, and an undying faith are truly paying off in our lives, it is easy to start feeling proud, and to let our foot off the pedal, as things seem to be taking their rightful place in our minds. We must remember when we experience this type of blessed life, that if we wish to maintain it, we have to be willing to keep our feet on the ground, even when our head is in the clouds. Staying humble in life is done by you doing a multitude of things, like putting others before yourself in some instances, praising others including God for helping you when others give you praise, being appreciative, and non judgmental while Nothing Worth Having Comes Easy. Nothing worth having comes easy. Life isn't just about being inspired. Much of life consists of putting in the hard work that it takes to get you to where you need to be. While prayer, belief in God, and belief in his works through you will help to take you far in life, you will go nowhere if you aren't willing to put in the work to actually go. You won't die from working as hard as you can in most cases. There are ways to do well without working your hardest, but most people who don't give their all in life end up with many regrets before their life's end. Don't be one of these people! Make the most out of your life by doing the most, and being the greatest person you may possibly become. Take risks, and seek out challenges instead of allowing distractions to rule your life.

Never regret your past.

Never regret your past. Rather, embrace it as the teacher that it is. -Robin S. Sharma Don't forget all that you have ever learned. Every memory that you have is a part of you. Every fight, every love, every relationship, every dinner, every graduation, and even every school day have left some kind of impression upon you, and have made you exactly who you are presently. Don't try to disregard the person you used to be by just trying to sweep that person under the rug! Embrace your past, even if it doesn't make you happy when thinking about it, it can make your present much more pleasant, and your future days much brighter. Embrace the trials and tribulations that you experienced, and take with you the lessons that they supplied you with. These memories are arsenal for your future, make the best out of these weapons by using them as each day passes, and as you are given new opportunities to live your life!

Create it.

Creating your future is a job for you and only you, because only YOU truly know where YOU want to go in life. A lot of us live our lives in the hopes of becoming someone that we always wanted to be, while only a few of us will truly be brave enough to go after our dreams. Do you believe that you can do all of the things that everyone else might tell you that you can't? Do you believe in working hard, and working harder when you fall short of a goal? Do you believe that you can overcome the voices of everyone around you, even the one inside of you that may doubt your capabilities, and the attainment of your dreams? 

If you vehemently deny life's attempts at making it's way for you, then you will most definitely make your own way. Predict your future by creating it, never settle, just work hard at being you!

Get up and show up

Read books. Care about things. Get excited. Try not to be too down on yourself. Enjoy the ever present game of knowing.
This quote is much easier typed out than it is to actually do. Living a healthy life is about engaging yourself in it, and doing the things that you need to do to make you become better. We should do things like read books, because there are always struggles that we are going through now, that someone else has probably experienced. It is very easy to learn from someone else's experience so that we won't repeat the same mistakes. 

Being excited about life is also very crucial. When we get down on ourselves we limit ourselves. Instead of beating up ourselves for making mistakes, or for failing when we thought we were doing the right thing, we have to be willing to forget about our mishaps and continue to push forward. 

We must continue to seek knowledge and experience as much of life as we possibly can, only then will we be enjoying the ever-present game of knowing.